I need urgent relationship help
So this guy came in with his mom to my office,I instantly feel in love with him,mind you I am single...I think at some point we liked ourselves and we had sex once ,he still reach out to me everyday but I want more than that,I want a relationship with him . Or how do I get this feelings off my mind Or can I talk to him about it
Posted 28 April
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Honestly? Tell him. The worst that happens is you know where you stand and you stop waiting by your phone wondering. The everyday reaching out thing is confusing sha, because that's not just casual behavior. A man who doesn't care doesn't check in daily. But you deserve to not be stuck in something undefined, especially when your heart is already all in.
28 April
Yes, talk to him. You've already had sex with the man, that conversation is not awkward anymore. Just be direct. Tell him you like him and you want to know where his head is. Not in a desperate way, just honest. "I like you, I want more than this, what are you thinking?" That's it. But also, watch his actions before you even have that conversation. You will know if a man genuinely likes you or just wants your body. Most times we already know, we just don't want to tell ourselves the truth. Men no sabi hide, his actions have already been telling you something. If he's not on the same page, at least you know and you can stop wasting energy on it. If he is, you just saved yourself months of overthinking
28 April
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